By Deborah Sugirthakumar
Historically, masculinity has been linked to strength, stoicism, and dominance. While these traits can be valuable, they can also inhibit emotional growth and the ability to connect with others. Traits like vulnerability are often discouraged, but are essential for empathy; both crucial qualities for healthy relationships.
As society evolves, it’s important to challenge these outdated ideas. Educators emphasise that emotional intelligence enhances boys’ development. Boys who understand and express their emotions are better equipped to resolve conflicts and build meaningful connections with peers and family.
A modern view of masculinity should promote emotional resilience and empathy, recognising them as strengths. Cultures worldwide offer diverse perspectives, demonstrating that care and compassion can be vital aspects of being a boy. These perspectives enrich our understanding of how strength and sensitivity can coexist.
Parents play a key role in this shift. By modelling respect and emotional openness, they help boys build a well-rounded sense of self. Activities like team sports or community service provide opportunities for boys to practise empathy in real-world scenarios.
Schools can also support this growth by integrating emotional intelligence into the curriculum. Workshops on empathy, respect, and communication skills equip boys with the tools to navigate emotions and relationships effectively. Educators can challenge gender stereotypes, fostering environments where boys feel safe to express their feelings.
With the holiday season upon us it’s important to recognise that domestic violence rates often rise during this time. Here are proactive steps to help reduce this:
1. Create safe spaces:
Encourage open conversations where everyone feels heard and supported.
2. Recognise warning signs:
Be aware of signs of stress and potential violence in yourself and others.
3. Prioritise self-care
Engage in activities like exercise, meditation, or hobbies to reduce stress.
4. Seek help:
If you or someone you know is struggling, don’t hesitate to seek professional support for managing stress and emotions.
By promoting empathy and respect in boys, we can cultivate a generation that values connection and understanding. This approach will foster healthier relationships and stronger communities.
Deborah is a writer and host of Mindful Moments on WYN.FM
